dont get me wrong sometimes this site is right in self care being ‘uwu curling up in bed and being kind to urself!!!!’ but also sometimes……hot take…..self care is rough. recovery is hard. sometimes self care is facing shit about yourself you dont want to face and addressing those problems head on and doing something about it. sometimes self care is discipline and changing your habits and lifestyle. self care can be indulgent and kind, but self care can also be a driving force towards who you want to be, and self care does not always feel good.